Thursday, January 30, 2020

Who is the right person?

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Who is the right person? 

Is he/her a stroke of luck or conspired by the universe.
Someone you know for ages or someone you catch a glace of.
Is he/her the person who displays love, joy, sorrow, anger with sheer passion.

Compatibility?
Compatibility, as The Oxford defines it as "A state in which two things are able to exist or occur together without problems or conflict." 

Without problems or conflict? 

The major conflict in Romeo and Juliet is not between the two main characters, but between their families. All of the other problems in the plot stem from this feud, and the two lovers must keep their love a secret and go to great lengths to fight the greater forces against them.

Okay, they both die in the end, not a good example. But I haven't seen any "loving" couple without problems and conflict I assure you that. What embarks upon a lifetime of efforts cannot be shunned in a matter of minutes. Things work like clockwork, one minute all good and the other is full of dismay and remorse. The trick is to outweigh the mass of sorrow, with happiness, together. 

It must not be just compatibility then. 

What other forces work in bonding two people in a place other than compatibility?

Honesty?
Indeed. A life force attaching itself to the core of every 'lasting' relationship. A criterion one can rely on. Honesty works both ways. Transparency and Acceptance are the pillars of Honesty. 
With the "right person," you see him for what he/she is and for whatever reason the bulb lights up. It can take weeks, month or even years for that 'click'. The problem is not two people click at the same "time".

Time? 
The very essence of Einstein's theory of special relativity. Derived to Quantum Entanglement, two bodies separated by a distance work together but in the opposite manner, connected by a "quantum force".

The Right Time for the Right Person can be a daunting task. The hustle and bustle of partnering ups around us can be the Steric hindrance we seem to be caught in and not see beyond. Caught up in the Relationship myopia, we tend to overlook, what the future holds to aim for excellence.

The right person is there, he/she exists in this imperfect world, as a speck of stardust, collecting his/her thoughts, ambitions and hopes to someday baffle you with charm, intellect, and honesty. 

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