Thursday, January 30, 2020

Who is the right person?

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Who is the right person? 

Is he/her a stroke of luck or conspired by the universe.
Someone you know for ages or someone you catch a glace of.
Is he/her the person who displays love, joy, sorrow, anger with sheer passion.

Compatibility?
Compatibility, as The Oxford defines it as "A state in which two things are able to exist or occur together without problems or conflict." 

Without problems or conflict? 

The major conflict in Romeo and Juliet is not between the two main characters, but between their families. All of the other problems in the plot stem from this feud, and the two lovers must keep their love a secret and go to great lengths to fight the greater forces against them.

Okay, they both die in the end, not a good example. But I haven't seen any "loving" couple without problems and conflict I assure you that. What embarks upon a lifetime of efforts cannot be shunned in a matter of minutes. Things work like clockwork, one minute all good and the other is full of dismay and remorse. The trick is to outweigh the mass of sorrow, with happiness, together. 

It must not be just compatibility then. 

What other forces work in bonding two people in a place other than compatibility?

Honesty?
Indeed. A life force attaching itself to the core of every 'lasting' relationship. A criterion one can rely on. Honesty works both ways. Transparency and Acceptance are the pillars of Honesty. 
With the "right person," you see him for what he/she is and for whatever reason the bulb lights up. It can take weeks, month or even years for that 'click'. The problem is not two people click at the same "time".

Time? 
The very essence of Einstein's theory of special relativity. Derived to Quantum Entanglement, two bodies separated by a distance work together but in the opposite manner, connected by a "quantum force".

The Right Time for the Right Person can be a daunting task. The hustle and bustle of partnering ups around us can be the Steric hindrance we seem to be caught in and not see beyond. Caught up in the Relationship myopia, we tend to overlook, what the future holds to aim for excellence.

The right person is there, he/she exists in this imperfect world, as a speck of stardust, collecting his/her thoughts, ambitions and hopes to someday baffle you with charm, intellect, and honesty. 

Saturday, May 6, 2017

Everything wrong with 'Baahubali 2 : The Sedimentation'


(Honest Review) SPOILER ALERT!

Okay, just like every mainstream Indian citizen I went and watched the movie. Its now 'The Movie' in India. I genuinely didn’t give a rat’s ass about why Kattapa killed Baahubali. I however wanted to see the epic fight sequence and the use of CGI. After the horrible Plaster of Paris bull CGI in BB1 I was prepared for more, but, -_- , to my surprise the pOp bull was a teaser to what you get to see in BB2, epic-transformer-ship-cum-flying-swan-shaped-sails-becoming-wings-clouds-dance-drums, WOOOOT!!! O.o There only so little the human mind can endure. Doped DOP, I want what the DOP was high on when he thought of that scene. But wait there is more, after Amarendra Baahubali's demise his son Mahendra Baahubali took all his physical features but not his super CGI capabilities nor his super analytical, logical reasoning skills. He went on to a more flash version, retarded bouncer brain with absurd trade of thought. One particular scene where Kattapa asked Mahendra baahubali to think like his father (end scene) and not be a hot headed idiot, he did this amazing thing where he flung his troops using palm trees like a catapult and landed on the frekin' inner curtain wall of the fort perfectly (f**k physics, just f**k it).


One thing is certain, everyone in the Kingdom of Mahishmati has meta-human strength. I get it, that they curled up in circles with their shields to lessen the impact and save themselves form projectiles but some landed on their feet, like human boulders they were breaking huge chunks of castle wall.  I think S S Rajamouli just gave up there; Swan-Ship was Creativity max, this was just too pathetic. The visuals are fantasy and unreal, its beautiful, the epic Baahubali death stab shot is just perfect, the visualisations are just too perfect and i don’t like things too perfect, because when it gets too perfect you can’t relate to it or feel the emotions, flawlessness leads to deceit. It looked as if he was posing for the camera in every shot of the movie. Same goes for  Devasena, she is an attention *hore. I mean just, plain show off by everyone in the movie. And then there is another epic stupid character, Sivagami. Two words - HER EYES, period. The dumbest lady in Mahishmati. Vachan Hi hain Sashan ke naam pe pura rajyaa jala dala. Can we give her a squatting ovation? Pleaj. -_- I get it, Kshatriya and all, they are known for their zubaan, even if baad mein bolne ke layak na rahe. I mean what vachan and what sashan if you don’t have your people to rule. Sivagami just puts icing on the cake with her epic decisions.


Then there is Karan Johar, he tweeted and I quote 'When the MONDAY behaves likes day 1...it's no longer a cinema celebration it's a cinema revolution! Monday ( Hindi) at 40.25!!! #Baahubali2' . Revolution, bullshi*, i don’t think so. But I agree, Indian cinema will spend much more on good story lineup and visuals/DOP from this day forward. Epics go a long way, a Mahabharata and/or Ramayana remake or just any mythological Indian subculture movie will do great in the Indian context. We love it. I admit. But a little more detailing and aesthetics is still missing. What Bahubali does deliver is the art, cliché romance and a blood pumping scenes. One scene in particular was when people cheered more for Baahubali during the crowning ceremony of Bhalla. That was the only scene which really made my time & money worth. Overall, it’s an 'okay' movie.  Over-hyped, too easy to rant about and a little appealing. Mostly because of the grandeur nature and wide angle shots.

Rating - 1.732/5

Recommendations - Definitely watch it, I mean it only religious to be mainstream.

Sunday, July 6, 2014

100 Questions




1. Grab the book nearest to you, turn to page 18, and find line 4. 
- ...represented in magnitude and direction by the side of...
2. Stretch your left arm out as far as you can, What can you touch?
- A lot of things -_-
3. Before you started this survey, what were you doing?
- Talking to my girlfriend. 
4. What is the last thing you watched on TV?
- Netherlands vs. Costa Rica 
5. Without looking, guess what time it is
- 1:23pm ish
6. Now look at the clock. What is the actual time?
- 1pm
7. With the exception of the computer, what can you hear?
- The fan. 
8. When did you last step outside? What were you doing?
- Last night at 10:30pm, bike ride to get some fresh air. 
9. Did you dream last night?
- Yes. 
10. Do you remember your dreams?
- Sometimes.
11. When did you last laugh?
- I don't remember.
12 .Do you remember why / at what?
- Nope
13. What is on the walls of the room you are in?
- 'Make Love not war' poster
14. Seen anything weird lately?
- Not really
15. What do you think of this quiz?
- Getting bored of it.
16. What is the last film you saw?
- The Little Rascals Save the Day
17. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?
- Some Caribbean island. 
18. If you became a multi-millionaire overnight, what would you buy?
- A lot of things, House in all the countries i want to visit.
19. Tell me something about you that most people don't know.
- I am very emotional.
20. If you could change one thing about the world, regardless of guilt or politics, what would you do?
- The Indian Constitution. 
21. Do you like to dance?
- I cant dance.
22. Would you ever consider living abroad?
- Yea for a couple of years but not permanently. 
23. Does your name make any interesting anagrams?
- Oh yes. 
24. Who made the last incoming call on your phone?
- My girlfriend.
25. What is the last thing you downloaded onto your computer?
- Arrow season 2 episode 9
26. Last time you swam in a pool?
- A month ago.
27. Type of music you like most?
- I like all sorts of music. Depends on my mood. 
28. Type of music you dislike most?
- None really.
29. Are you listening to music right now?
- Nope.
30. What color is your bedroom carpet?
- Red
31. If you could change something about your home, without worry about expense or mess, what would you do?
- A helipad, definitely a helipad. 
32. What was the last thing you bought?
- Mangoes.
33. Have you ever ridden on a motorbike?
- Yes.
34. Would you go bungee jumping or sky diving?
- Already planned. This winter.
35. Do you have a garden?
- Yes.
36. Do you really know all the words to your national anthem?
- Yes.
37. What is the first thing you think of when you wake up in the morning?
- Hope the day doesn't suck like every other day. 
38. If you could eat lunch with one famous person, who would it be?
- A date with Emily Rickards
39. Who sent the last text message you received?
- Google. 
40. Which store would you choose to max out your credit card?
- I dunno. This isn't USA. 
41. What time is bed time?
- When i am sleepy.
42. Have you ever been in a beauty pageant?
- ....
43. How many tattoos do you have?
- 1 on my chest.
44. If you don't have any, have you ever thought of getting one?
- I will get another one later.
45. What did you do for your last birthday?
- Was at vizag, training. It was a day well spent. 
46. Do you carry a donor card?
- No, but i will get one soon.
47. Who was the last person you ate dinner with?
- My dad.
48. Is the glass half empty or half full?
- The glass if half empty and half full.
49. What's the farthest-away place you've been?
- To Kanyakumari
50. When's the last time you ate a homegrown tomato?
- I always do.
51. Have you ever won a trophy?
- Yes.
52. Are you a good cook?
- Yes i am :) 
53. Do you know how to pump your own gas?
- I never have.
54. If you could meet any one person (from history or currently alive), who would it be?
- My aunt, had some questions for her.
55. Have you ever had to wear a uniform to school?
- Always.
56. Do you touch-type?
- Yes. I am doing it right now. 
57. What's under your bed?
- Its empty.
58. Do you believe in love at first sight?
- No. I believe in infatuation at first sight.
59. Think fast, what do you like right now?
- Some quality time with friends.
60. Where were you on Valentine's day?
- I have no clue. I don't remember.
61. What time do you get up?
- Depends on what time i go to bed. Today i woke up at 12pm
62. What was the name of your first pet?
- I never had a pet and I don't want any in the near future.
63. Who is the second to last person to call you?
- A senior.
64. Is there anything going on this weekend?
- Not really. Staying Home
65. How are you feeling right now?
- Bored.
66. What do you think about the most?
- My mother.
67. What time do you get up in the morning?
- ....
68. If you had A Big Win in the Lottery, how long would you wait to tell people?
- Immediately. 
69. Who would you tell first?
- My dad
70. What is the last movie that you saw at the cinema?
- Transformers : Age of Extinction 
71. Do you sing in the shower?
- Yo
72. Which store would you choose to max out your credit card?
- ....
73. What do you do most when you are bored?
- I write blogs. Incomplete blogs.
74. What do you do for a living?
- I eat.
75. Do you love your job?
- I don't have any. 
76. What did you want to be when you grew up?
- An Inventor.
77. If you could have any job, what would you want to do/be?
- An astronaut. 
78. Which came first the chicken or the egg?
- I have no clue. Didn't do my research on that.
79. How many keys on your key ring?
- 2
80. Where would you retire to?
- Some peaceful country.
81. What kind of car do you drive?
- I don't have a car.
82. What are your best physical features?
- None.
83. What are your best characteristics?
- I am very very frank with my actions and words. 
84. If you could go anywhere in the world on vacation where would you go?
- Hawaii 
85. What kind of books do you like to read?
- Thriller, romantic, mystery, sci-fi
86. Where would you want to retire to?
- ....
87. What is your favorite time of the day?
- Evening
88. Where did you grow up?
- Hometown, Agartala
89. How far away from your birthplace do you live now?
- I am in my birthplace.
90. What are you reading now?
- The fault in our stars
91. Are you a morning person or a night owl?
- Night owl
92. Can you touch your nose with your tongue?
- Nope
93. Can you close your eyes and raise your eyebrows?
- Yes.
94. Do you have pets?
- Nope
95. How many rings before you answer the phone?
- Depends. Deciding for should i pick up the call or not.
96. What is your best childhood memory?
- My mom's food.
97. What are some of the different jobs that you have had in your life?
- Mostly as a social worker.
98. Any new and exciting things that you would like to share?
- I am planning to make my room voice controlled. 
99. What is most important in life?
- My family, more precisely my sister.
100. What Inspires You?
- People with innovative ideas. 

Monday, February 18, 2013

The Lover's Love - The Over Hyped Emotion

When the world says 'give up', Hope whispers.. Try it one more time.

Just like any other feeling it has its pros and cons. 
Its a Little different from other emotions in many ways then one, but its still an emotion. The entire world rests in the hands of it. Love is like the mixed fruit salad which brings all emotions into one. Happiness, sadness, joy, pride, fear, courage, guilt and remorse are just a few to be named. Its a roller-coaster ride of emotions. The best thing about it is that its shared between two people and it costs nothing. When you love someone its not mandatory that the other person should love you back and believe me or not, that's the beauty of it. Because then and only then you come out of your shell, your comfort zone and "Express". It makes the one in Love, restless, ruthless and possessive. The Cons to be exact. But the cons are the decisions you have to take at one point to realize your partner's worth. Falling in love is the best feeling and expressing it to the person you love is best decision you can ever take.

He/she will ignore you? That's not a good enough reason to stop yourself. No matter how much he/she ignores. They will soon think about you and analyze the situation. And that will always make them happy. I mean you just proposed him/her, wont that make them feel good for themselves.

Ever wondered why the answer to a "PROPOSAL" is given in either yes/no.
I really don't get the concept. A "Proposal" is not a yes or no question. Proposal as the dictionary claims is a plan or suggestion put forward for consideration or discussion by others or the action of putting forward such a plan or suggestion which by extension regarding "Love Proposals" means you 'express' how you feel and let the other person decide what to do next and suggest you what can be done since you expressed yourself.
But let me remind you one thing. Love should be pure. Not coz of sympathy and definitely not coz of Lust. Love him/her coz your heart said so or for reasons you cant explain.

Finally, Heart-Breaks :
Ever had an accident? Ever felt the pain? A broken leg?
The days that went by when you couldn't lift that leg, or even bending it causes so much pain which lasted for a week or a month or even a year, but it wears of. But you leg remains forever deformed/scared reminding you of the Accident.
Well Love has sort of a Similar concept. The scars don't show in the physical form but mentally, which is worse but then like a broken limb the pain eventually wears of. But in the long run similar to the scar/deformation, the thought of the one you loved so truly will remind you of the heart-break. Learn from them. Don't take a pessimistic approach. Be open-hearted. Hope keeps us alive remember :) . So Go out there and let your heart out to the person you love.
Pyar Kiya Toh Darna Kya ;) Right ?

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Guys, Here is how to confuse a Girl! :D


GUYSSSS!!! - Girl Have a Secret Weapon ... We Have a Solution... \,,/ 


Always remember: Every step of a woman, every decision she utters, desperately demands a reaction, strictly for the basis to continue a drama. And what guys always do is, give her drama. They cry, they ask her reasons, they make her the queen.  But for one second think about breaking this system. The key to get any girl is to confuse her.A girl's life is like a movie, the more you let her be your boss and unknowingly follow her instructions to be a part of that movie, the more you'll never have her in your life and just be a pawn. To have the girl, you have to be her boss; and in order to do that, you have to end that movie right now. 

How do you end it?


Girl: I am sorry but we shouldn't be friends anymore/ I don't want to hurt you anymore/ I am really busy these days, and I have college work to do/ I have to go out with my parents/ I can't call you in the night because I sleep with my sister/ My phone is with my mum as the exams are coming and she caught me talking for hours/

(And still her phone would be busy)

Such are common examples that girls use to ignore you directly. What do you do? If she is directly ignoring you and is interested in some other guy, then don't apply the following method. But if she is friends with you and just confuses you with what she wants, whether she wants you or not, it all implies that she has taken you are granted. You are her insurance; and you never want to be that, trust me.




What you do when she says the following thing:

 Girl: I am sorry but we shouldn't be friends anymore!
 Boy: Again? But why? (this is what guys do every time, they start writing a thesis and resort to compromising) Please don't do this?

Girl: I just want to be alone/ I don't to be friends with anyone/ I want to focus on my studies or work/ I have had enough of guys in my life / blahblah(Another mistake of guys is that they never hear it as blahblah, when all of it is actually blahblah; they start applying their heads and giving reasons to their blahblah, which of course would not result to anything)

Boy: But I don't want to trouble you/ Listen, I would never trouble you/ you can trust me, I won't disturb you or call you very much/ (answers to her blahblah)

Then for a considerable time, a guy tries to call her and she ignores, but the moment he gives up she'd call him one day with nothing to say, and revise everything again.

What you are supposed to answer in order to confuse her- 

Boy: Oh I can understand what you feel. I know you want to be alone, it's alright, I'll never disturb you. You just take care of yourself! 
Girl: ??? 
 (She has nothing to say except for okay and hang up now, and this is when you break her movie.)  You hang up the phone, and you leave her 100 % confused. She'd now think that maybe she doesn't value much in your life, that's why it was okay for you to let go of her with such comfort. And she'd end up calling you again in a day or two. 

The secret is that you do exactly what she tells you to, because that's not at all what she wants. She wants you to act exactly the opposite of it, she wants you to beg, to be felt important.

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Ghosts: At a Molecular level




Scientific analysis -

I believe in the normal and the paranormal. I mean its only logical. There are things which science can't explain and then there are the blind believers and non-believers. I am a believer. But this article is me putting up an 'Idea', a theory perhaps. I might be a little hypocrite here.
So, the paranormal, the demons, the angles, the good ones and the bad ones. We all heard about them and we all are in a state of confusion.
This might clear a few things up.
If ghosts really do exist whats the state of their existence. I mean "The state" as in, the five states - Solid, Liquid, Gas, Plasma and Bose-Einstein condensate or a mixture, like us humans because well as the theory goes, people die and they become ghosts. So, its a mixture perhaps.
Spirit and Soul, we talk a lot about those things. I mean if ghosts are spirits/souls then they must feed on something to plain exist, leave alone the 'haunting us' part. So i will presume they feed on minerals and sunlight and other stuff. So as long as they get the adequate amount of power to keep them rolling they are practically immortal.
Lets go with the well known theory about Ghosts:
- They are sometimes lost
- They have a motive at times
- They think they are still alive at times
- They sometimes mean harm to anyone who comes in their way
- They mean no harm at times and are just there to freak us out
- They are usually translucent in nature
- They feed on Fear and Darkness
- They are just stuck on earth and cant move to heaven/hell
- They are sometimes rejected souls and continue doing their work as they did when they were alive.
- And the list goes on - lost(dead) lover(s), unfinished deed, utter confusion, etc etc etc.

So, those are what I know. The deal is lets say they exist.
Whats their basic anatomy(structure)?
We all are made of atoms. Anything in existence should be made of atoms at a nuclear level.
Hence, ghosts = a complex atomic structure. And we very well know, the law of conservation of energy, energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only be transferred into one form or the other. So they are basically transferred energy packets held into place by some bonds. But the real question is how do they remember what they were when they were alive? How do they manage to gather up the memory from the brain before it decays? Well, perhaps there is a transition of the brain as the body dies. The brain is the first thing to molecularity form, just like the growth of an embryo. And it happens gradually with the memories intact and the unfinished deeds highlighted.

Why the translucent nature of the usually seen ghostly figures?
Perhaps the atoms didn't gel well as they were suppose to, I mean if they would then the entire human would be re-born(reincarnation reference). But no, they are loosely bonded.

How do they get their energy to survive?
We all have heard about "A ghost which has been living up the abandoned mine-shaft house for 100's of years", How? I mean whats the secret. As mentioned earlier - minerals. But, digestion, conversion of minerals to energy! What about it? There might be a process working in them, osmosis sorta or can be like a nuclear reactor (as in the sun). But everything has to end, i mean it can't go on forever.
Well it does. Its just that it takes longer then usual.

What if the earth dies (we know it will some day)? Will they still survive?
Well at least their motive would die, i mean no earth and there will be a bunch of confused souls. But their are other 7 planets and many others millions of light-years away. I highly doubt they will still be able to survive, i mean the cosmic radiation would be enough to vaporize them, let alone the fact that they probably wont be getting the adequate energy supply. Haven't heard about a paranormal activity on the moon or any orbiting satellites.

I have spoken. Reading this you might get it all cleared up or rather more confused then you already were. I just made an opinion. An opinion debatable at so many levels.

Conclusion - Lets hope they exist, that will keep our heads ticking, because there is so much we don't know. The hunger to know more and solve the mysteries of the universe will never end. And i am sure science is all gearing up to Explain the Un-explainable.

Monday, October 22, 2012

The Female Attitude

Today I am going to Shed a light on Something We say a lot but neglect it in the long run :
Attitude/Ego/PickUp of Girls 
From where do they adopt the trait ? 
Its not something they acquire genetically. Its something they develop as they grow. From family , form situations. And i strongly believe is merely a defense mechanism. 
If i could have a penny for every time a Guy said "Koto Attitude mayadar", i would have been a Billionaire by now. Lets face it. It hurts to look at the female who walks by with all that attitude. I mean look at her, so pretty, so hot, so good at heart, but that Ego of her's ruins it all for the men.
She does it because she doesn't want to get raped/betrayed/left with a broken heart.
There are Reports of Rapes of 8 every 5 minutes in India alone. That means right now as you read this there is some guy doing his evil and you are there wondering why she doesn't want to talk with you. And I am Sure among the 8 cases at least 1 is being done by her so called "boyfriend". So the girls have a Strategy, don't get a Lust mongering Boyfriend and we all know how many males are out there with that mentality. And i don't think there is a survey of breakups which sometimes makes the girl mentally paralyzed and incapable of looking at another guy AGAIN. I am not saying all men are Dogs, but that Phrase has to come from somewhere. So, every time you (guy) are getting rejected or just plane ignored doesn't mean you are unwanted or a Rapist, you are just someone the girl is taking time to analyse.

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