Monday, February 18, 2013

The Lover's Love - The Over Hyped Emotion

When the world says 'give up', Hope whispers.. Try it one more time.

Just like any other feeling it has its pros and cons. 
Its a Little different from other emotions in many ways then one, but its still an emotion. The entire world rests in the hands of it. Love is like the mixed fruit salad which brings all emotions into one. Happiness, sadness, joy, pride, fear, courage, guilt and remorse are just a few to be named. Its a roller-coaster ride of emotions. The best thing about it is that its shared between two people and it costs nothing. When you love someone its not mandatory that the other person should love you back and believe me or not, that's the beauty of it. Because then and only then you come out of your shell, your comfort zone and "Express". It makes the one in Love, restless, ruthless and possessive. The Cons to be exact. But the cons are the decisions you have to take at one point to realize your partner's worth. Falling in love is the best feeling and expressing it to the person you love is best decision you can ever take.

He/she will ignore you? That's not a good enough reason to stop yourself. No matter how much he/she ignores. They will soon think about you and analyze the situation. And that will always make them happy. I mean you just proposed him/her, wont that make them feel good for themselves.

Ever wondered why the answer to a "PROPOSAL" is given in either yes/no.
I really don't get the concept. A "Proposal" is not a yes or no question. Proposal as the dictionary claims is a plan or suggestion put forward for consideration or discussion by others or the action of putting forward such a plan or suggestion which by extension regarding "Love Proposals" means you 'express' how you feel and let the other person decide what to do next and suggest you what can be done since you expressed yourself.
But let me remind you one thing. Love should be pure. Not coz of sympathy and definitely not coz of Lust. Love him/her coz your heart said so or for reasons you cant explain.

Finally, Heart-Breaks :
Ever had an accident? Ever felt the pain? A broken leg?
The days that went by when you couldn't lift that leg, or even bending it causes so much pain which lasted for a week or a month or even a year, but it wears of. But you leg remains forever deformed/scared reminding you of the Accident.
Well Love has sort of a Similar concept. The scars don't show in the physical form but mentally, which is worse but then like a broken limb the pain eventually wears of. But in the long run similar to the scar/deformation, the thought of the one you loved so truly will remind you of the heart-break. Learn from them. Don't take a pessimistic approach. Be open-hearted. Hope keeps us alive remember :) . So Go out there and let your heart out to the person you love.
Pyar Kiya Toh Darna Kya ;) Right ?

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