Guys, Here is how to confuse a Girl! :D

GUYSSSS!!! - Girl Have a Secret Weapon ... We Have a Solution... \,,/ 

Always remember: Every step of a woman, every decision she utters, desperately demands a reaction, strictly for the basis to continue a drama. And what guys always do is, give her drama. They cry, they ask her reasons, they make her the queen.  But for one second think about breaking this system. The key to get any girl is to confuse her.A girl's life is like a movie, the more you let her be your boss and unknowingly follow her instructions to be a part of that movie, the more you'll never have her in your life and just be a pawn. To have the girl, you have to be her boss; and in order to do that, you have to end that movie right now. 

How do you end it?

Girl: I am sorry but we shouldn't be friends anymore/ I don't want to hurt you anymore/ I am really busy these days, and I have college work to do/ I have to go out with my parents/ I can't call you in the night because I sleep with my sister/ My phone is with my mum as the exams are coming and she caught me talking for hours/

(And still her phone would be busy)

Such are common examples that girls use to ignore you directly. What do you do? If she is directly ignoring you and is interested in some other guy, then don't apply the following method. But if she is friends with you and just confuses you with what she wants, whether she wants you or not, it all implies that she has taken you are granted. You are her insurance; and you never want to be that, trust me.

What you do when she says the following thing:

 Girl: I am sorry but we shouldn't be friends anymore!

 Boy: Again? But why? (this is what guys do every time, they start writing a thesis and resort to compromising) Please don't do this?

Girl: I just want to be alone/ I don't to be friends with anyone/ I want to focus on my studies or work/ I have had enough of guys in my life / blahblah(Another mistake of guys is that they never hear it as blahblah, when all of it is actually blahblah; they start applying their heads and giving reasons to their blahblah, which of course would not result to anything)

Boy: But I don't want to trouble you/ Listen, I would never trouble you/ you can trust me, I won't disturb you or call you very much/ (answers to her blahblah)

Then for a considerable time, a guy tries to call her and she ignores, but the moment he gives up she'd call him one day with nothing to say, and revise everything again.

What you are supposed to answer in order to confuse her- 

Boy: Oh I can understand what you feel. I know you want to be alone, it's alright, I'll never disturb you. You just take care of yourself! 

Girl: ??? 

 (She has nothing to say except for okay and hang up now, and this is when you break her movie.)  You hang up the phone, and you leave her 100 % confused. She'd now think that maybe she doesn't value much in your life, that's why it was okay for you to let go of her with such comfort. And she'd end up calling you again in a day or two. 

The secret is that you do exactly what she tells you to, because that's not at all what she wants. She wants you to act exactly the opposite of it, she wants you to beg, to be felt important.

Ghosts: At a Molecular level

Scientific analysis -

I believe in the normal and the paranormal. I mean its only logical. There are things which science can't explain and then there are the blind believers and non-believers. I am a believer. But this article is me putting up an 'Idea', a theory perhaps. I might be a little hypocrite here.
So, the paranormal, the demons, the angles, the good ones and the bad ones. We all heard about them and we all are in a state of confusion.
This might clear a few things up.
If ghosts really do exist whats the state of their existence. I mean "The state" as in, the five states - Solid, Liquid, Gas, Plasma and Bose-Einstein condensate or a mixture, like us humans because well as the theory goes, people die and they become ghosts. So, its a mixture perhaps.
Spirit and Soul, we talk a lot about those things. I mean if ghosts are spirits/souls then they must feed on something to plain exist, leave alone the 'haunting us' part. So i will presume they feed on minerals and sunlight and other stuff. So as long as they get the adequate amount of power to keep them rolling they are practically immortal.
Lets go with the well known theory about Ghosts:
- They are sometimes lost
- They have a motive at times
- They think they are still alive at times
- They sometimes mean harm to anyone who comes in their way
- They mean no harm at times and are just there to freak us out
- They are usually translucent in nature
- They feed on Fear and Darkness
- They are just stuck on earth and cant move to heaven/hell
- They are sometimes rejected souls and continue doing their work as they did when they were alive.
- And the list goes on - lost(dead) lover(s), unfinished deed, utter confusion, etc etc etc.

So, those are what I know. The deal is lets say they exist.
Whats their basic anatomy(structure)?
We all are made of atoms. Anything in existence should be made of atoms at a nuclear level.
Hence, ghosts = a complex atomic structure. And we very well know, the law of conservation of energy, energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only be transferred into one form or the other. So they are basically transferred energy packets held into place by some bonds. But the real question is how do they remember what they were when they were alive? How do they manage to gather up the memory from the brain before it decays? Well, perhaps there is a transition of the brain as the body dies. The brain is the first thing to molecularity form, just like the growth of an embryo. And it happens gradually with the memories intact and the unfinished deeds highlighted.

Why the translucent nature of the usually seen ghostly figures?
Perhaps the atoms didn't gel well as they were suppose to, I mean if they would then the entire human would be re-born(reincarnation reference). But no, they are loosely bonded.

How do they get their energy to survive?
We all have heard about "A ghost which has been living up the abandoned mine-shaft house for 100's of years", How? I mean whats the secret. As mentioned earlier - minerals. But, digestion, conversion of minerals to energy! What about it? There might be a process working in them, osmosis sorta or can be like a nuclear reactor (as in the sun). But everything has to end, i mean it can't go on forever.
Well it does. Its just that it takes longer then usual.

What if the earth dies (we know it will some day)? Will they still survive?
Well at least their motive would die, i mean no earth and there will be a bunch of confused souls. But their are other 7 planets and many others millions of light-years away. I highly doubt they will still be able to survive, i mean the cosmic radiation would be enough to vaporize them, let alone the fact that they probably wont be getting the adequate energy supply. Haven't heard about a paranormal activity on the moon or any orbiting satellites.

I have spoken. Reading this you might get it all cleared up or rather more confused then you already were. I just made an opinion. An opinion debatable at so many levels.

Conclusion - Lets hope they exist, that will keep our heads ticking, because there is so much we don't know. The hunger to know more and solve the mysteries of the universe will never end. And i am sure science is all gearing up to Explain the Un-explainable.

The Female Attitude

Today I am going to Shed a light on Something We say a lot but neglect it in the long run :
Attitude/Ego/PickUp of Girls 
From where do they adopt the trait ? 
Its not something they acquire genetically. Its something they develop as they grow. From family , form situations. And i strongly believe is merely a defense mechanism. 
If i could have a penny for every time a Guy said "Koto Attitude mayadar", i would have been a Billionaire by now. Lets face it. It hurts to look at the female who walks by with all that attitude. I mean look at her, so pretty, so hot, so good at heart, but that Ego of her's ruins it all for the men.

She does it because she doesn't want to get raped/betrayed/left with a broken heart.

There are Reports of Rapes of 8 every 5 minutes in India alone. That means right now as you read this there is some guy doing his evil and you are there wondering why she doesn't want to talk with you. And I am Sure among the 8 cases at least 1 is being done by her so called "boyfriend". So the girls have a Strategy, don't get a Lust mongering Boyfriend and we all know how many males are out there with that mentality. And i don't think there is a survey of breakups which sometimes makes the girl mentally paralyzed and incapable of looking at another guy AGAIN. I am not saying all men are Dogs, but that Phrase has to come from somewhere. So, every time you (guy) are getting rejected or just plane ignored doesn't mean you are unwanted or a Rapist, you are just someone the girl is taking time to analyse.

So You had a Bad day

So You had a Bad day

Oww, Your day was bad coz you had a nasty fight with ur GF/BF.
Oww, Your day was bad coz you broke a nail.
Oww, Your day was bad coz you had a bad experience at College/School.
Oww, Your day was bad coz of that one sight you saw or coz of that one text you received from your 'ex

Oww, your day was bad...
Did u have to spend whole night preparing for the Exam and finally went to bed at 3am to see that your part of the bed was ruined by ur sick mom and had to sleep on the floor in the freezing cold and finally wake up for college feeling all feverish and tired at the exam hall.

Oww, your day was bad...
Did u have to wake up all happy at the weekend to know that you will have a peacefully sleep and great day and come to know that your maid wasn't coming and prepare meals, make sure ur mom and sister ate and bath your sister and do all the household chores..


Oww, your day was bad...
Did u spend endless hours thinking "oww m feeling soo low, let me call/text a frnd and talk for a while" and when you do, you get no replies or they don't pick up calls and u get depressed over the fact that you might not have any friends.

Oww, your day was bad...
Did you wake up wondering no one cares for coz last night u had a chat with a girl who was terebly unhappy but u made her happy and she didn't even know how sad you were and slept off wondering NO ONE! NT A  SINGLE PERSON!

Oww, your day was bad...
Did u have that weird conversation with your best friend and now she never talks the way she used to as a matter of fact she ignores you and behaves so rude which makes you wanna kill yourself for sheer existence in this fucked up world.

Oww, your day was bad...
Do you get all irritated by your mom while watching TV where she stands in front of the TV no matter how many times you tell her to move out of the way  or Studying where she calls to ask you what you are doing every 2minutes (LITERALLY).

Oww, your day was bad...
Did you ever have the situation where you went to have your dinner and find there is Nothing left to eat coz most of the food is Either in the Garbage or Thrown Out, and that would happen almost every single  day.

Oww, your day was bad...
Did u have to make lame excuses to not go to the college or tuition's or hangouts when the real problem is There will be no one to take care of my family if i go and by extension  i get Attendance Shortage, Scolding and Ignored by friends.

So You had a Bad day.. :)